The UNIVIEW

Newsletter of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Lexington

May 2008

www.uucl.org

 

Worship Services

Sunday, May 4, 11:00 am:  “Creating a Culture of Care”

Esther Hurlburt, M. Div. and candidate for UU ministry, will speak. This sermon is a prelude to our newly imagined “Lay Caring Team,” which will involve all UUCL members, and provide far more responsiveness to needs for concern and caring. There will be an opportunity to sign up for levels of participation, and trainings on lay pastoral care.  **There will also be a New Member Ingathering during the service**

Worship Leader:  Esther Hurlburt.  Ushers:  TBA.  Greeters:  Howard Stovall and Sue Shannon.  Chalice Table:  Ellen Bush.  Board Member in Attendance:  Eric Huffer

 

1st Sunday Lunch

The May 4th lunch will be sponsored by the Greeters & Membership.  If you will be staying for the lunch, please bring a dish to share.

 

 

Sunday, May 11, 11:00 am:   “Mother’s Day with Kenneth Anderson!”

Kenneth Anderson is noted for his exceptionally rich bass-baritone voice, and powerful musical interpretations. Legendary activist and folksinger, Pete Seeger, has called him “one in ten-thousand, reminding one of Paul Robeson.” There will also be a dedication  for Audrey Bennett, daughter of Cole & Michelle, and sister of Oliver!

Worship Leader:  Rev. Cynthia Cain.  Ushers:  James & Charlesmarie Maxberry.  Greeters:  Andy & Terri Weber.  Chalice Table:  Shirley Dennis.  Board Member in Attendance:  Andrew Mooney.

                                                                

 

Sunday, May 18, 11:00 am:   “Religious Exploration Celebration!”

Take a journey through a year of RE in pictures.  Witness the progress of the Coming of Age youth and their Credo statements.  Prepare to be entertained and amazed. There will also be a dedication of Nick & Alexandra Rumford, son  & daughter of Sabrina & Rob.

Worship Leader:  Stacey Stone.  Music:  Sally McCord.  Ushers:  Barbara Sherrod and Charles Faber.  Greeters:  Ginny & Richard Mason.  Chalice Table:  Martha Strossman.  Board Member in Attendance:  TBA.

 

 

Sunday, May 25, 11:00 am:   “White, Black And at War”

For Memorial Day, we’ll start with a look at Gen. Patton’s all-Black brigade during WWII and other historic Black military groups; and consider the ever-present questions of race through the lens of the ever-present questions about war.

Worship Leader:  Rev. Cynthia Cain.  Ushers:  Danielle Turpen and Mac Reid.  Greeters:  Jeanne Van Arsdall and Larry Iaquinta.  Chalice Table:  Marie Conger.  Board Member in Attendance:  TBA

 

 

Sunday, June 1, 10:00 am:   “Flower Communion”

The Flower Communion is a long-standing ritual tradition in Unitarian Universalism.  It helps bind us together and reminds us of the diversity and strength of our faith community.  Please bring a flower from your garden, or from a florist, to share with the congregation. 

Worship Leader:  Rev. Cynthia Cain.  Ushers:  TBA.  Greeters:  Howard Stovall and Sue Shannon.  Chalice Table:  Ellen Bush.  Board Member in Attendance:  TBA.

 

** Summer Service Time:  Starting June 1st, Sunday Services will begin 10:00am**

 

 

Introducing White, Our Color for May

White projects purity, cleanliness, and neutrality. Doctors don white coats, brides traditionally wear white gowns, and a white picket fence surrounds a safe and happy home.

 

 

 

Cynthesis:  That’s Why It’s Called the WHITE House….

            Over my adult life, the question has come up:  Who do you think will become President first… a woman or an African American?  Usually, the answer among people of my generation was “neither, in my life time.”  As I write, we are facing the situation many of us never imagined we’d face!  Equally possible at this juncture is that the answer may remain “neither.”

            So much has been stirred up by this election.  One would be remiss to ignore the undercurrents and the sub-texts of each accusation and speculation.  Whatever else he is, Barack Obama is still a Black man, as understood by Americans, and Hillary Clinton is still a White woman.  Beneath and hovering slightly above every casual remark and every carefully worded attack is that reality.

            And the big white lie we tell every day is that it isn’t a big deal.

            But when we look at voter statistics in this primary, how else do we explain the fact that blue collar and working class white Americans continue to support Clinton; that older Americans support her; and that middle-aged white women flock to her?  There is sexism in some voters’ rejection of her, and there is undoubtedly racism in some voters’ rejection of Obama.  What interests me is our fear of facing this truth.

            White is our color for May.  We have two child dedications scheduled, and we have two Sundays planned where the discussion will touch upon race.  Since the overwhelming majority of our members and of Unitarian Universalists are “white,” (I prefer the term Caucasian, even though that’s not exactly right either), it might be a good time for us to think about the notion of “whiteness.”  The reason it has been used for baby dedications and weddings and that the Pope wears white is that it is associated with purity.  Yet we know now that white is not the absence of color but the blend of all colors of the spectrum in equal amounts.  My most vivid memory of reading Moby Dick  for the first time is of the chapter “The Whiteness of the Whale,” where Melville (a Unitarian) parses the many ways in which whiteness can evoke horror as well as peace and light.

            “White” people are not better; in fact, they are not even white!  Caucasian skin most likely evolved  from dark skin as humans progressed into colder latitudes and needed less pigment to absorb more Vitamin D.  And it would probably be difficult to find a “white” American who did not have Black, Asian, American Indian, or other ancestry somewhere.  So why all the fuss?  Unitarian Universalists have been among the first of the faith groups to deconstruct these questions and to grapple with the uncomfortable answers.  I hope we can continue to do so, and not let the Big White Lie, that racism is a thing of the past, keep us silent.

            Meanwhile, whether you are white, Black, or Brown, you might enjoy a website called www.stuffwhitepeoplelike.wordpress.com.  The list, delivered with humor and honesty, includes coffee, farmers’ markets, Yoga, Toyota Prius, and Barack Obama. See you in church!

            With love,  Cynthia

PS. Our own Heather Carpenter, graduate of Vanderbilt Divinity School, will preach on this topic during the summer!  Stay tuned…

 

 

UU 101 – June 1

Visitors are welcome to join Sarah Herbener, UUCL's Membership Coordinator, in the conference room at 11:30 am for a brief "UU 101" class!  No need to RSVP -- just show up.  We'll spend about an hour talking about Unitarian Universalism in general and about the life and work of our congregation.  This is a great way to begin learning about our church and to get any questions that you might have answered!  We hope to see you there.  If you have any questions before June 1, email Sarah at membership@uucl.org.

 

 

 

Our Journey Together

Religious Exploration (RE) for Children and Families   With the sunny days and warm weather, summer is right around the corner!  We are planning a lot of wonderful experiences for UUCL families ... Creative Suummer!  Outdoor sculpture, Garden Creations, Mural painting; bringing the 7 principles to life and so much more.  Are there any adults who are good with a chainsaw?  We would like to make the tall stump by the Allen House into a child designed sculpture, and we need help with the big cuts!  The kids can do the detail work! 

            There is a SUUMMER Sign Up list on the RE table Every Sunday in the summer starting June 1st.  We Need Volunteers (Adults and Teens) to give our regular RE helpers a break!  We design Multi-age activities with many options for the children and youth.  Let's have fun together.  Creative ideas and suggestions are welcome.

 

RE Committee News:

            We have been hard at work on our Mission statement and here is it is!  We had many great ideas which we will develop into objectives.  The mission of the Religious Exploration Program at UUCL is:  To provide a safe, supportive and creative environment where people of all ages can learn from one another with a foundation in our UU principles and heritage, diverse religious ideas, personal faith development and social responsibility.

            The RE Committee is also planning a Parent of High School Youth (and youth who will soon be in High School) meeting.  We will be talking about ways to improve our High School program.  Two meeting options will be scheduled soon.

            We are planning an on-line survey for the early fall about what parents and UU members feel it is important for the children and youth at UUCL to learn.  This feedback will be used to strengthen our RE planning and get more people involved in the process.

 

Upcoming Events:

R     Sun. May 4th - Ice Cream Sundaes!  The 3rd-4th class won an ice cream sundae party for the Ultimate Egg Hunt.  The 3/4 class will get free sundaes with all the toppings.  Do you want ice cream too!?!  We will set up an Ice Cream Sundae bar immediately after 1st Sunday lunch and we will accept donations for the RE music program.

R     Sat. May 10th - 5-8pm Family Night at UUCL!  Come dressed to make a creative mess!  Bring a potluck dish to share!  The whole family can have fun together! 

R     Sun. May 11th is Mother's Day.  Show your love to the one who gave you life!  All children and youth will be getting ready for the RE Celebration service the following Sunday.  Please come and help us pull together a great service!

R     Sun. May 18th is the RE CELEBRATION service.  We will be recognizing the stages of life with a ceremony for Kindergarteners, 8th graders, and Graduating Seniors.  If you have a child/ teen in any of these age categories, please let Stacey know soon.  This service will feature our Coming of Age group presenting their Credo statements.  All of our Amazing Leaders, Guides, Advisors, Mentors, Assistants, and RE Committee members deserve your appreciation.  This year we have had over 55 volunteers!  It takes a lot of people to share their time, energy and ideas to run our RE program.  Thank you for your time and investment in our children and youth!

R     Sun. May 25th is the Summer Start Party.  Fun & Games for all ages!  **Families with travel plans during the summer, remember to collect a small sample of water for our water service in the fall.  We will share our travels as we mingle our waters.  Our experiences enrich our whole community.

R     June 2nd-June 5th - The Coming of Age Group will be in Boston.  Thank you for your support in helping a great group of young people experience our UU heritage first hand!

 

Our Whole Lives (OWL) is an extensive sexuality education program.  There are programs for K/1 & 4-6, 7-9 & 10-12 and Adults.  If you are interested in becoming a trained facilitator for any of these programs, let Stacey know ASAP, so we can budget and schedule a training.  There are a number of trainings coming up this summer and fall.  **We especially need to train facilitators for the 7, 8, 9 & 10-12** which we would like to offer in the fall.  Parents of youth in these classes can be trained for a different age group.

            If you have a seldom used (but in good working condition) CD player, we would like for every RE classroom to have their own player.  Thank you!

            Take some time to enjoy the beauty of May in Kentucky.  The sun is shining, the flowers are blooming and spirits are soaring.

            Peace on your journey,  Stacey

Stacey Stone, Director of Religious Exploration for Children & Youth

 

 

 

Music Notes 

¯              Special thanks to Judith Hersh who has been filling in for Alan as he recovers from a strained arm.

¯              The UUCL Choir will next sing in June.  Thanks to the many who showed up for the April 20 service to sing the Offertory.  We will try to sing at least one Offertory a month during the summer, just to keep our voices up.  All are welcome!

Alan Hersh, Music Director

 

Bell Choir:  if you are interested in being a part of the bell choir, contact Sharon Schilling, 260-8484.  You do not need to read music to be a part of the bell choir.

 

 

 

Originally, scientists wore beige coats. In the late 19th century, medical professionals chose white ones. The color white was chosen because of the idea of hope and expectations for healing and recovery that the physicians would bring.

 

 

             

Membership Corner

I spent some time last week going through the past year’s blue visitor cards and found that what’s true for many UU churches is true for our church as well:  the vast majority

of people first visit a UU church either because they saw information about it on the web (thanks to Nancy Fordyce for keeping our website up-to-date!) or because they heard about it through a friend.  I love knowing so many of us enjoy our time at UUCL so much that we want to recommend it to our friends! 

            I’d like to encourage all of us to make sure friends and family who might be interested know about our church and feel they are welcome to visit.   Of course all of us have had unpleasant experiences with people trying to evangelize us into their religions, and we don’t ever want to be pushy, but we should keep in mind that there are a lot of people who would be a good fit for our church but who don’t know anything about us or who have misconceptions about what Unitarian Universalism is all about.  Here are a few things to try:

            Invite or bring someone to a Sunday service, particularly one you think will appeal to their interests.  (We’re planning a few special services in September we think will especially appeal to visitors; more on that later.)  Also, invite or bring someone to other church events, groups, and activities.  Many members of UU churches join after having participated in another church activity such as an adult RE class; not everyone starts with Sunday services.  Be sure people know nonmembers are welcome to try out some of our classes, activities, and groups to see what we’re all about. 

            Then, if you know a friend has attended a church service or event and you feel comfortable doing so, follow up with them, see if they liked it, and let them know they’re welcome to return.  The Membership Team and I follow up with visitors when we can, but nothing’s better than having a friend call to say, “The group enjoyed having you there; I hope you’ll come back again next time!”

            Thanks to all of you for inviting friends to explore all that we offer here at our church home.  No one else in Central Kentucky offers quite the same church experience that we do; let’s continue to spread the word!  Happy Spring!

Sarah Herbener, Membership Coordinator

membership@uucl.org

 

 

 

“Giving Away the Plate”

May:  Lexington Inner City Outings

The May 4 Offertory will go to the Lexington Inner City Outings (ICO) Program; an outreach program of the national Sierra Club.  They work with three inner city agencies here in Lexington:  Manchester Center, East 7th Street Center and Ashland elementary.  They take groups of 10-12 kids at a time on daytrips, overnight campouts and canoe trips, supplying all of their needs for the trip:  transportation, equipment, food and safety. By getting these kids outside they feel they have given them a chance to see just how big the world is and broaden their minds.

 

June:  UUSC-UUA Kenya Crisis Fund

            Violence triggered by the flawed election in Kenya has resulted in the death of many Kenyans and the displacement of over 255,000 people. Unrest continues in various parts of the country and many people are unable to obtain food, shelter, and medical care; the United Nations estimates that 400-500,000 Kenyans are in need of humanitarian assistance.  Because Kenya also serves as the regional hub for trade and the flow of relief supplies, the growing crisis threatens vital humanitarian work in Uganda, southern Sudan, and the Congo.
            The current crisis in
Kenya is dire, and UUSC is mounting an urgent effort to respond. Your generous support will enable UUSC to direct assistance to those whose human rights have been further eroded.  In order to help us respond, our June 1st Offertory will go to the UUSC Kenya Crisis Fund. 

 

 

 

Environmental Task Force

Green Tip of the Month

Because of technological advances, electricity now generated by wind power, a primary renewable energy resource, is cost-competitive with that generated by some fossil fuels.  The United States has large potential for wind energy resources within economic transmitting ranges of large cities on the west coast, in Texas, in the Midwest and northeast.  Help support research into using alternative energy! 

 

 

 

Adult Religious Exploration

Introduction to Islam

Thursday, May 5th, 7:00pm

Welcome a special guest for "Intro to Islam"...

Hasan Ozturk, our Muslim friend from Turkey who helped with the RE Studios for children.  Hasan, who will present a session for Teens & Adults, says he is not a theologian, but is willing to share a short film, his experience and information on Islam.  Come learn together and participate in a respectful discussion.  Let Stacey know if childcare is needed, uucldre@uucl.org.

 

 

 

More shades of white are available commercially

than any other color.

 

 

 

Memorial Garden

A Place of Quiet Meditation

            The UUCL Memorial Garden, located adjacent to the main building, was created more than a decade ago.  It is a space for quiet meditation.  A sacred space has been set aside which allows Church Members to scatter cremated remains and then place a memorial stone to commemorate a loved one.  There is also a small plot set aside to memorialize the cremated remains of a beloved pet. 

            A Memorial Garden committee is in place which can help you secure a space and answer questions.  These committee members can help with the planning, filling out of papers and discussion of the one-time fee.  This committee is also responsible for the keeping of the historical design and the placement of future plantings and fixtures.

Committee Members: Barbara Sherrod, Chair, Howard Stovall, Judy McDonald, Toni O’Neil and Leslie Simpson.

 

 

 

Women's Spirituality

The Women's Spirituality Group will meet Saturday, May 17.  Come at 6:00pm for a potluck dinner, or at 7:00 to join us in discussion. (You do not have to bring anything fancy for potluck – anything will do.)  A new edition of Cakes for the Queen of Heaven has been published by the UUA and we may be interested in studying it together.  All women of the church and their friends are welcome.  Call the office, 223-1448 for directions.

 

 

 

Lexington-Bluegrass Pagan Pride, sponsored by LexCUUPS, has a new website up and running! Check it out at www.lexpaganpride.org.

 

 

 

 

Interweave

A number of people have expressed interest in Interweave.  We will get together for lunch on Sunday, May 18 after the service.  Let’s meet in the Fellowship Hall and decide whether to buy pizza from the teens and stay at the church or to go out.  I (Mary Crone) will hold a sign up in the Fellowship Hall.  Interweave is a support group for GLBT people and friends.  Everyone is invited to have lunch with us.  

 

 

 

“An Evening to Remember”

June 7th, 6:00pm at UUCL

Entertainment by Jim and Dena Smith.

A Dinner Prepared by Sharon Schilling.

Food Donated to Our Church by Whole Foods Market.

 Join us for this lavish Service Auction Event!

$25.00 a person

Call the church office, 223-1448, to reserve your seat

at a gorgeously decorated table.  All proceeds will be donated to the Florence Crittenton Home

 

 

In Chinese culture, colors corresponded with the five primary elements, the directions, and the four seasons. White was associated with metal, west, and autumn.

 

 

 

Pride Prom – May 30

The UU Teens are working with the community Gay Straight Alliance for Youth to put on the second annual Pride Prom, May 30 at the church.  We are looking for adults willing to help decorate between 6:00 and 8:00pm and/or to chaperone from 8:00pm to 12midnight.  Some chaperones will be able to go home before midnight.  Call the office, 223-1448 for more information or to volunteer. 

 

 

 

Don’t Forget The Water!  Collect a small sample of water from your travels this summer for the Water Service this fall.

 

 

 

Group/Committee News

 

Art House Movie and Discussion Group:  Thursday, May 1 and June 5.  To be added to the e-mail notification list, or for more information, contact the office. 

 

First Friday Bridge:  Friday, May 2 & June 6, 7:00pm in Classroom 1. 

 

UU Community of Frankfort:  Sunday, May 4, May 18 & June 1, 4:00pm, Frankfort Yoga Studio (306 West Main St., 3rd Floor of the McClure Bldg., in Frankfort).  www.frankfortuu.org.

 

UU Men's Night Out:  Tuesday, May 6 & June 3, 7:00pm, at Marikka’s Bier Stube, 411 Southland Dr. 

 

UU Women Dining Out:  Thursday, May 8, 6:30pm.  We will dine at Asian Wind in Palomar Center.  No reservations are necessary. 

 

Middle School Youth Group:  Fridays, May 9 & May 23, 6:30-8:30pm, Fellowship Hall.  This group is open to all 6-8th graders.

 

High School Youth Group:  Fridays, May 9 & May 23, at 6:30pm in the RA House. 

 

Justice Council:  Sunday, May 11, after services, at Joseph-Beth.  The Justice Council coordinates the various social & environmental justice projects at UUCL.

 

Riverbirch Yoga:  Wednesdays, 7:15-8:15pm, Great Hall.  All levels of experience are welcome.  Donations welcomed.

 

LexCUUPS:  Sundays after the service outside (or in classroom 2 if the weather is bad). 

 

Humanist Forum:  Wednesday, May 14, 7:00pm in the Conference Room.  The "God Spot."  Much has been written about "neurotheology," the search for basic hardwired neurological mechanisms that correlate with a religious experience in some (many, most?) people. Are those of us who do not experience divine visions or voices somehow mentally deficient? Jim Nammack will start the discussion on this weighty subject.  As always, all opinions are welcome; we do expect that dissenting opinions be presented respectfully. Come early for supper by Sharon; childcare provided.

 

Moms’ Group:  Saturday, May 10, 10:00am, RA House.  Topic:  Mothers and Spirituality. 

 

East 7th Street Birthday Party:  Friday, May 30, 4:00pm at the East 7th Street Community Center (740 E. 7th St.).

 

Breakfast at the Catholic Action Center:  Saturday, May 24, 8:30am.  Meet at the Center, 400 E. Fifth Street.

 

Environmental Task Force:  Sunday, May 25, 12:30pm in the Conference Room. 

 

Simple Living Dinner:  6:00-7:00pm, Fellowship Hall.  Suppers are $6/person, kids (under 10) are $2. You are encouraged to make a reservation by contacting Sharon at 260-8484.  Meals will be available without a reservation until they run out. Desserts are available separately for $2.00. 

 

Sitting Meditation:  Sundays, 9:00am in the Richard Allen House; and Wednesdays, 6:30pm.  No meditation on 6/1.

 

Sunday Sangha:  Sundays, 9:45am in the Richard Allen House. 

 

 

 

Next Uniview Deadline:

Wednesday, May 28 at noon.

This issue will cover June 4 thru July 2.

 

 

 

May 2008                     Events are held at UUCL unless otherwise noted

 

 

 

 

Thursday  1

 

6:30p, Art House Movie Night

 

 

Friday  2

 

7p, 1st Friday Bridge

 

 

 

Saturday  3

 

 

 

 

 

Sunday   4

 

9a, Meditation

9:30a, Choir Rehearsal

9:45a, Sunday Sangha

12:30p, 1st Sun. Potluck

CUUPS, after the service

4p, UU Comm. of Frankfort, Fkt Yoga Studio

Monday   5<